April 8, 2005
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I stole this from the same girl on Xangas as noted below in my previous post. I think i just might steal ALL her posts. cuz i just dont have anything to say.
Chemistry
At the end of the day, it’s about chemistry. An imperfect guy may just be adorable. Then you can be handed a picture perfect guy and just not feel anything.
There have been a few guys I really wish I could have liked. I loved their personality. I loved spending time with them. Other girls may have gushed over them but I simply didn’t feel it. The idea of them kissing me grosses me out.
I think I’ve dated resumes in the past. I go out on dates with stacked resumes when there is ZERO chemistry. Good conversation does not equal chemistry. Good looks don’t equal chemistry either.
I have a friend from college who is really cute. Whenever my friends meet him, they think he’s really hot and ask me why I don’t hook up with him. He is really attractive but I feel no chemistry.
Is chemistry just lust?
Last year one of my single friends was being pursued by a low occupation guy. He didn’t go to college. My friend wasn’t interested in him. He was cute with a great personality. I told my friend to go for it. She snapped, “LIChunsaH, you would NEVER date a guy like that.” Actually I think I would. Those types of guys just never pursue me.
When it comes down to it, it’s how you feel when they are near you. Does he make your heart beat faster? Do you want him to come closer? Does he make you smile?
Perhaps this doesn’t pertain to males since just about ANYTHING can get them excited if they haven’t been laid for 1 or 2 days, let alone 6 months. Maybe guys will confuse sexual frustration and/or being horny with chemistry. (I really like this sentence I just wrote. lol I like how I amuse myself. hehe)
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